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i personally couldnt deal with a cheater.. i would take time apart . just explain to her that if you continue the relationship you believe it will deteriorate even more than if you tried to work it out at this present time. you need time to accept the situation. you will also have time to see if she chooses to carry on her little fiasco.. if she is truly sorry she wouldnt be able to keep doing it. if she gets over you and keeps it up ,she would be likely to do it anyway.. if all goes as planned i highly reccomend you go to couples counseling. im reading a book right now that says realationshps in which infidelity has occured have a pretty good survival rate over people who just dont see eye to eye .sounds outrageous to me because i COULD not be in a relationshp with a dude who cheated.. screw that...but i dont have kids ..and they are who you would need to make it work for. if it is nearly impossible to get over these recurring images and resentment you 2 will argue to no end and that would be more damaging to the kids than anything .... it may hurt to be apart but sometimes its better... BEST OF LUCK!!!
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